{"id":152,"date":"2003-11-04T17:48:03","date_gmt":"2003-11-04T22:48:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rezio.net\/woa\/?p=152"},"modified":"2003-11-04T17:48:03","modified_gmt":"2003-11-04T22:48:03","slug":"we-got-over-odamn-what-about-f-word","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/rezio.net\/woa\/?p=152","title":{"rendered":"We got over Odamn&#8217;; what about f-word?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 My innocent world picture dissipated one winter afternoon in 1948 when I heard and read the four-letter Anglo-Saxon word that people shouldn&#8217;t use in polite company. It was in fact a multiple-sensory education, as I also saw, for the first time, crude drawings depicting the word in question.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 In a recent Work of Art, I had originally broached the f-word with just the first letter, followed by three blanks. Before the paper went to press, editor Jesse Gallegos remarked, correctly, that even that kind of sugar-coating of a profane word was not like me. We agreed on something like #!#@.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Because no word considered obscene will appear today in this column, readers ought to be able to infer the word on the basis of its first syllable and length.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Entering the Santa Ana Casino recently for a press association banquet, my wife Bonnie and I were taken aback at the language one employee used as she exited. The 20-ish woman wanted to know why the f&#8212; her f&#8212;&#8212;- boss was f&#8212;&#8212; there. And besides, he should f&#8212; himself. She remained unfazed even though hundreds may have heard her.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Even for the mid-Victorian, for people who don&#8217;t use such coarse language, that was quite a linguistic\/grammatical treasure trove. The discontented worker used the f-word as four different parts of speech, respectively a noun, a participle, an adverb and a verb. Now wouldn&#8217;t that innovative use of the language have made my grammar teacher proud!<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Aside from the fact that the f-word can serve multiple grammatical functions, the word itself is offensive. Some people have become so accustomed to its use that it simply comes \u00e2\u20ac\u0153trippingly off the tongue,&#8221; as Shakespeare would say. But rather than turn this into a grammar lesson, let&#8217;s discuss why the word, which through the millennia continues to offend.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 The f-word remains the only word of its kind which instantly rings clear. \u00e2\u20ac\u0153F-word&#8221; stands for no other word. Other terms, such as the s-word or the p-word, are ambiguous except in the context of the f-word.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 One Highlands professor, insisting that the f-word appears in Chaucer&#8217;s Canterbury Tales, used that as justification to invoke the word with its accompanying shock value. It DOES NOT appear in Chaucer. Its origin is really fairly murky. Some suggest it&#8217;s an acronym related to carnal knowledge. But regardless, my contention is that the word simply sounds ugly. It&#8217;s a fricative followed by a personality-less vowel, then a plosive. Not a euphonious combination.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 When I was about 9, I got a visual, aural and printed introduction to the f-word. On an early-dismissal school day, I met my older brother Severino, who asked me to join him and his friend Carlos on an excursion.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 We went to a part of town I&#8217;d never seen, the Independence Street bridge, where we cut up sheets of ice that exposed myriad crawdads. Directly under the bridge we came across some primitive drawings that elucidated the f-word. As an extremely naive pre-pubescent boy, I needed to ask the older boys the meaning of the drawings as well as the pronunciation of the word, sprinkled throughout the bottom of the bridge.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Aside from some revulsion I was nevertheless impressed that people who scrawl obscene, profane and scatological text NEVER misspell any words. If only pupils learned to spell other words with such accuracy. . . .<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Since then I&#8217;ve been amazed at the word&#8217;s continued ability to shock. Sure, we are familiar with the semantics of the word: words don&#8217;t hurt, sticks and stones do. However, what the f-word represents is what causes wars. A person asking someone, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153What the f&#8212; you looking at?&#8221; isn&#8217;t planning to invite the other for crumpets and tea.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Other aspects to the word are that people, such as the disgruntled casino employee, have simply become immune to the word and have no idea it rankles others.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Another observation is that the f-word becomes a filler. People who sprinkle it into their conversation simply can&#8217;t conjure up the proper word. Playing around with a vocabulary of perhaps 500 words, the f-word users know it can fit anywhere in a sentence.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 The recent ruling by the Federal Communications Commission that the f-word is not obscene and may therefore be used over the airwaves no doubt will invite more its frequent use. The live-TV use of the word during a recent awards ceremony has paved the way for use of the f-word without consequences.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Even during family hour, we notice the frequent use of son-of-a-b&#8212;-, which was taboo only a couple of years ago.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 It was around 1948, when at age 9, I participated in a group gasp in a crowded Serf Theater when Rhett Butler told Scarlett O&#8217;Hara, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Frankly my dear, I don&#8217;t give a damn.&#8221;<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Leaving the Serf that evening, I knew, as did everyone else, that Clark Gable&#8217;s blatant use of such profanity in \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Gone With the Wind,&#8221; would be the topic at dinner tables all over Las Vegas, though no one I can recall used the word \u00e2\u20ac\u0153damn&#8221;; instead, most simply spelled it out or said it rhymes with ham.<br \/>\n\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Such is the evolution of the language of Shakespeare, Milton and Keats. I&#8217;m sure they would be f&#8212;&#8212; displeased.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 My innocent world picture dissipated one winter afternoon in 1948 when I heard and read the four-letter Anglo-Saxon word that people shouldn&#8217;t use in polite company. 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