Ellen

Despite the weeks of waiting, and trying to expect the unexpected, the big day came in sort of an unsurprising way. We had a standing appointment on Monday for a checkup, in the event that the baby had not come before then.

And so, almost as if prompted by the deadline, Lisbeth started to have pains late Sunday night. The pain was strong enough to keep her up all night, but not strong enough for her to decide that we needed to head to the hospital. So we went the next morning for our 8:45 appointment.

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That time of the year

It’s that time of the year.  When, although it may not be any warmer, you can tell the winter is waning. When, although I didn’t think I minded the dark of dead winter, I feel a profound sense of relief. When suddenly, I don’t need lights on my bike when I leave work.

An apartment building next to my office The Black Diamond (the royal library) Almost home: The business side of Christianshavn

I took these on my ride home after work this week. Compared to the shortest day of the year, there are now two and half extra hours of light every day. And the shortest day of the year was only eight weeks ago.

Top threat to the US

According to this article, National Intelligence Director Dennis Blair (a former navy commander, not an economist) says that the economic crisis outranks terrorism as the biggest threat to the US.

How ironic that — after the endless warnings from Bush administration about terrorism and the urgency to fight it “over there” — that the larger threat would turn out to be not only unrelated, but both domestic and entirely self-inflicted.

So full of doubts

The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.
  – Bertrand Russell

Any day now

any day now

Sure enough

My friend Michelle has been laid off from Microsoft. She’ll mostly likely move her family back to the US in a few months. In fact now it seems that everyone in the group of friends that moved here around the time I did will be gone by this summer.

It’s sad, but I can certainly see how living here is not for everyone. Michelle probably would have moved back anyway — getting laid off merely speeds up the process.

I’m so glad I left Microsoft. I’m glad for many reasons, but now I have a new reason. If I’d stayed, I would probably have gotten laid off too. And getting laid off now — a week before the baby is due — would have really sucked.

No Time for Poetry

I just read a good analysis of Obama’s first speech as president called No Time for Poetry. It points out, among other things, that the mess we’re in isn’t due to Bush alone (although he certainly isn’t free from blame.) Many, many people joined in on the spending spree that was powered by a stock and housing boom that now seems completely ludicrous, but at the time seemed merely suspicious. It’s never been more clear that hard times have arrived. And that we haven’t seen the worst of it yet.

It’s certainly striking close to home for me. Lisbeth got laid off last week. She’s on a year of maternity leave and never intended on going back to that job anyway, but nevertheless, it’s scary. It affects both our finances and our psychology. Then a friend of hers lost his job in the publishing industry. And this week Microsoft announced that they will cut 5,000 employees. About 100 of the initial 1400 will be from the Copenhagen office where Lisbeth and I met, and where we still have friends. The specific people that will be jobless are to be announced on Thursday.

My company is suffering as well. There haven’t been any layoffs, but in less than a year we’ve gone from having customers lined up at the door, with projects booked almost year in advance, to being worried about having enough to do for the next three months. Plus several big customers in our London office have gone bankrupt, and so large projects we did for them will never be paid for.

And we haven’t seen the worst yet.

The Western Sea

It may be over three months late, the nevertheless, the pictures that Lisbeth and I took with the family when we visited the Western Danish coast after the wedding are finally posted.

Western Sea -- Sept. 2008

New Years in Copenhagen

This year I spent New Years in Copenhagen for the first time, having been invited to a party by our friends Anja and Torben. I’d heard a lot about it, and it sounded like fun. Indeed it is fun, but unfortunately I was completely jet-lagged, having gotten back from New Mexico the previous day. I was so tired that I fell asleep on the couch of people I’d only just met, with five adults and three kids running around.

DSC_4084.JPGApparently I thought that since Americans have a special relationship with fireworks, Europeans didn’t. It turns out that Europeans (or Danes and Germans at least) LOVE fireworks. Our fourth-of-July is their New Years Eve.

DSC_4159.JPGThey love fireworks so much that some of them drive four hours to Germany, where they can purchase fireworks that are illegal in Denmark. They love fireworks so much that some fireworks are ignited at the dinner table. They like fireworks so much that extra fire fighters, paramedics, and clean-up crews have to be deployed.
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Notes to self: Travel

I just got back from Christmas with my family in New Mexico. (Lisbeth is due on Februry 5th, so she stayed in Denmark and had Christmas with her family.) This was the first time I’d had two stopovers, and I was a little surprised at how much difference that one stop makes the trip. I saved about $400 doing it this way, so that’s $200 each way… but I’m not sure it’s worth it.

It’s not really the layover that’s the problem. I don’t mind having time to stretch my legs, and if it’s no longer than three hours, the time isn’t really the issue. The problem is that each layover increases the chances of a missed, delayed or cancelled flight. Coming into I came very close to missing my flight in Houston. So that’s one lesson — saving some money can cause a missed flight. But I noticed a few other things about air travel on this trip. Read More →